Life : Why we fear to take full control of it

Well ..as it happens most of time...after spending 1-2 weeks as normal human being..I get overwhelmed by the emotions which i see around myself...and to get over this hangover , I have to isolate myself and think about the most puzzling thing which have been at the centerstage since adam and eve.


What is life ...Who we are ...What is happiness ..and how to live life..

Everything which we consider right or wrong ..is simply what we were feed from the start. What is all that is lie... Animals kill each other ..they are infidel...they are not virtuous..yet they also live

I have seen humans rule changes as per time and place...lot of things which were considered INCORRECT by the society , has changed. And there is no guarantee that it will not change in future.

So how in this world, should i live his life. Should I do whatever it pleases him, without consideration of anyone else. If i am happy doing something, will it matter what other thinks of me.

All the big industrialist / money-makers have not earn money by 100% morally. Because you can't. When results do not depend entirely on you, to get best results you have to think just about yourself.

Same way I am listening to lot of breakups happening in bollywood now a days, What is this ?
Suddenly after spending 3-4 years , people are realizing that they are not compatible.

Can you really spend your life with only one person ? How can you be sure that he/she loves you as much as we do.  We can simply believe , there is absolutely nothing else on whose basis we can make a conclusion.  If you believe other person to be faithful, it doesn't matter what you see or hear. You can always make  yourself to believe in any lies. Same way if you don't want to believe ..nothing can be done .

So you see, its in our control how we live our life....but even then we tend to give away the control to others ...parents, bosses, loved ones.


I say when we have to live in a world concocted by lies , its better to live in our own lies.
Lets do what we want to do ...if nothing else...mayb atleast we will know in the end if GOD exist or its is biggest myth of all times.